So you tryin ta be white?

Are you talking about working towards being happy, healthy, wealthy, wise, enjoying my career, capable of advancement, and able to care for my family as opposed to miserable, tore down, broke, addicted, unemployed, hopeless, helpless, angry, and abusive? - well, um, I prefer to call it trying to be right, which has nothing to do with skin color, but you can call it white if you want to - sounds like group self-sabotage; just a thought.